Simple Divorce Advice

When a relationship changes from being full of loving memories and endless nights discussing dreams of being together and what the future holds it can be devastating. There is no doubt about that.
On some level it is as though the way the relationship ended made a mockery of the earlier times you shared and mostly, a mockery of you.
Because of this emotion negative self talk can follow. Such things as telling yourself you were a fool for believing you could have a life with someone that was on the same page as you is ridiculous; and you were silly for even contemplating it. There is even a deeper part of you is saying “see, I told you”.
But, in all of this, under the negative self talk, in the retribution for loving and being committed to someone, there is a part of you, irrelevant of how small, that knows what you wanted and what you aspired to was very real and very possible.
Whether what you wanted was to be achieved with this person or another, or even if it is something you do for yourself, what you want always has importance.
Life has a way of clouding our focus, particularly when it comes to relationships as well as the dissolution of relationships. It is easy and at times warranted, to be consumed by the pain that is caused because of your emotional investment into that relationship.
At some point, however, when the pain lessens and reality has a way of reminding you that you need to continue, to remember what it is that you truly want that will make all the difference to you in your life right now. To take it even further, wanting something that will provide a positive focus to place your energy into knowing that whatever result you obtain this will give you so much more than what you have right now.
When someone says to you that you can have anything you want, the usual response is to laugh it off. The truth is that you can have anything you want and if you give yourself the permission to be open to this possibility contemplate on where that will actually take you. The irony is that often what we want is so small and so simple.
Consider what it is you want and then go and get it; simply because you deserve it and you can.

Hally Rhiannon-Nammu
Power Life Coach / Spiritual Healer of Creative Balance
International Author / Speaker
(www.creativebalance.com.au)
Written by: Hally Rhiannon-Nammu – copyright 2011

Source: What Do You Want For You?

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