Simple Divorce Advice

By Hally Rhiannon-Nammu

When we think back to when we were children we recall giggling over the prospect of “when I marry Mr/Mrs Right” and it is this fairy tale we take with us into our adult lives saying exactly the same. We never stop to consider the impact this has on us including the unrealistic expectations we place upon our prospective partners as well as ourselves. We find ourselves holding our partners accountable for the relationship failing omitting that this was inevitable from the onset.

With this said, does the prospective relationship include companionship or even friendship? Does it have the potential of supporting our growth in who we are today and who we see ourselves being in the years to come?

To take this even further; does that mean we should accept degradation, infidelity and all the other aspects of what goes against our core values of what is necessary in a relationship? Absolutely not!

Over the years I have spoken to many people that came to see me in search of the elusive perfect partner and that perfect relationship only to realise there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. The realisation was one of initial shock that the fairy tale does not exist, however once this passed, something deeper and more real became known. There is such a thing as a mutually happy and fulfilling relationship providing each person with support, love and companionship.
This takes work to achieve and maintain which includes communication and at times confronting aspects of ourselves that cannot be hidden underneath the metaphorical rug.

The relationship is living and breathing; it is a reflection of the energy that is created by both people. As both people within the relationship continue to evolve so too will the relationship.

If I have learnt anything through clients and personal experiences, this work must first start with you. We love to place what we feel and believe on the other person and often pretend this is not coming from us, when it very much is.

There are endless reasons for a relationship to end however, it can also provide the opportunity of finding one that does work; that does provide everything you need, want and deserve. It all starts with you…

When you look at yourself in the mirror, are honest about what you see, how you see yourself and what would truly make you happy then you are well on your way to the relationship that is right for you.

Hally Rhiannon-Nammu
Power Life Coach / Spiritual Healer of Creative Balance
International Author / Speaker
(www.creativebalance.com.au)

Source: The Perfect Relationship – The Fallacy

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