Simple Divorce Advice

By Jake Vandenhoff

Divorce ya, did she? Well, I’ve been there and I’ll tell you what, it wasn’t any fun at all. There were some dark days for sure… But luckily once the storm clouds roll out of town there’s a brighter day out there on the horizon!

The past couple years I’ve been working as a professional dating coach for men and my all time favorite coaching activity is helping divorced men like yourself to get back up on that horse and reclaim their glory! It’s a great feeling and y’know what? It’s waiting for you.

Now there’s a lot of dating advice for divorced guys out there and after having review a TON of it, it’s safe to say that the majority is NOT written by guys who are particularly successful with women. Mainstream ideas about dating are not going to get you the results that I know you want.

In order to counter all this “mainstream,” politically correct nonsense I’ve put together a short list of 3 things every divorced guy must do to experience the awesome post-divorce dating life that he deserves:

1) Start Feeling Good Again
I know, easier said than done right? When the girl of your dreams just walked out of your life, it’s hard to be happy. Especially if she’s got a good lawyer and she’s trying to take you for your dough as well…. But, no matter how hectic the situation with your ex, you MUST make a point to do activities that will cheer you up.
Sure, a new girlfriend may be high on your list, but before you can get a really quality new woman in your life you’re gonna need to stop being so sad and stressed. If possible you should try to take some time off from work. Just getting away for a week and relaxing on a beach with a cold one can really help get your head back in a good place. Other good pick me ups include time with positive thinking friends, time spent doing fun outdoor hobbies, and physical exercise.

2) Don’t Limit Yourself In Who You Date
Many guys who have been out of the dating game for a while have strict ideas about what “type” of women they should date. For instance, many of my clients have this idea that they should only go after much younger women. Now, this certainly CAN be fun and refreshing, but many times it’s just not that good a match. This is your chance to have fun and date all different types of women again, women of all different ages and from all different backgrounds, so take advantage of this opportunity and DIVERSIFY!

3) Get Online ASAP
One of the easiest ways to get started dating again after a divorce is to join a dating site and really make an effort to meet women this way. Before your marriage you probably never even considered online dating, but nowadays it’s the place to be. Internet dating is also great for guys who are a little older, and aren’t into hitting up bars and clubs all the time to meet women. I’ve had incredible personal success online and helping guys meet women online is a huge part of my business.

For more info on how to get a GREAT post divorce dating life going for yourself visit my website and read my groundbreaking Online Dating Playbook – it’s like your personal road-map for dating after divorce!

See original: Dating After Divorce – A Survival Guide For Men

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