Simple Divorce Advice

Divorce advice and support from lawyers, mediators, divorce coaches, financial experts, collaborative specialists, therapists, dating experts, child specialists and other profesionals who work in divorce.


 
 

 
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Should I give my marriage one last chance? Part 2

By Scott Costello, MSW LCSW You have to be willing to give “one last chance” wholeheartedly. But, that doesn’t mean doing things that you’re not ready to do, like sleeping with him. It does mean participating in therapy...
by Scott Costello MSW LCSW
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Should-I-give-my-marriage-one-last-chance-Part-1

Should I give my marriage one last chance? Part 1

By Scott Costello, MSW LCSW When you told your spouse that you wanted a divorce, were they shocked? I find that men are often shocked to find out that their wife wants a divorce. It’s then that they start to make changes,...
by Scott Costello MSW LCSW
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Still Do Not Understand The Divorce Party

I was having a bit of a blank this morning, creative block brought on more by the fact that I have got really interested in the US economy and what happens if the US defaults on its loans. Nothing as far as I can see, many of t...
by Jennifer Chang
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Tax Traps To Avoid During Divorce

By Sandy Arons Here are 11 tax traps to avoid while you go through divorce. Divorce and taxes are part of the reality of moving forward to a new separate life. 1. Not deducting professional fees for attorneys, accountants, fina...
by Sandy Arons
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It’s As Easy As ABC – Dating After Divorce

Break Ups, Not Break Downs

  C By Janis Spindel No two breakups are ever the same; different lives, different circumstances, different types of relationships. Clearly, if you were married young and grew apart your breakup is going to be vastly diffe...
by Janis Spindel
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Beware The Free Divorce Advice You Get

Beware The Free Divorce Advice You Get

What is free divorce advice? Is it advice given to help you in your divorce to make the experience and outcomes better for you? Is it advice given to help you bypass mistakes that have cost other people? Or tactics you can inco...
by David Westwick
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Divorce – It Is All About The Process

I see many clients in my office who are dealing with the pain of separation and divorce. Some are leaving their partners and others have been the ones left behind. Whether you are the ‘dumper’ or the ‘dumpee&#...
by Claire Sutton
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WHEN YOU’RE WRONG

WHEN YOU’RE WRONG, THOUGH YOU KNOW YOU’RE RIGHT

by Hally Rhiannon-Nammu How many arguments have existed over who is right and who is wrong? To what extent do we go to in order to prove that your point is right and that it should be acknowledged, validated and taken on board?...
by Hally Rhiannon-Nammu
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How To Reinvent Yourself – Or Divorce Changes.

We reinvent ourselves many times in our lives. Most of us start off as helpless infants, somehow manage to get up, walk, learn to talk, get an education, hold down a job, have relationships, maybe having children and the lucky ...
by Bradley Foster
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10 Hidden Costs Of Keeping The House After Divorce

By Sandy Arons House appraisal – mortgage balance does not = equity to be divided between spouses. Does your house need repairs? Have a home inspection prior to signing the divorce papers to determine if expensive repairs are...
by Sandy Arons
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Blame-and-Shame

“Blame & Shame” Or What Did You Gain? How To Turn Your Divorce Into A Learning Experience

By Gail Desilets, M.A., M.S. Getting caught up in extreme emotion during a divorce is very normal. Sometimes it can seem like you are flailing around before you get your bearings again. Let’s face it, life as you have gotten ...
by Gail Desilets MA.MS
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How One Therapist Survived Divorce!

By Robinson Arteaga, MA, LPCI During a divorce you feel beyond sad, you feel broken, disheartened or even resentful. I would know I went through it too. During my divorce I found myself emotionally defeated and inconsolable. It...
by Robinson Arteaga MA LPCI
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The Roles of the Mental Health Professional in the Collaborative Divorce Process

By Tamsen Thorpe, Ph.D. Divorce Coach and Child Specialist Mental health professionals may be brought in to be members of the collaborative divorce team in two different roles; a Divorce Coach and a Child Specialist. Both roles...
by Tamsen Thorpe PhD
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Letting Go After a Divorce Can Be Hard

By Hally Rhiannon-Nammu After spending so much time with someone and then having to seemingly pick up the pieces on your own to start a new life, it is as though a piece of you has been removed. Often afterwards, irrelevant of ...
by Hally Rhiannon-Nammu
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